Letters to a Young Matron, Part 2
Communication is vital to a well-managed household. It is also fraught with dangers, confusion, and sin. It grows and changes. Learning to respectfully communicate is one of your greatest skills as a homemaker. You will screw this up. You will have to confess a disrespectful heart, mind, and words. Learn from these failures and follow his instructions on respecting him and managing his household.
Letters to a Young Matron, Part 1
Right now your whole world is tainted by the intoxicating emotions of romance, and the oddly amazing and indescribable sense of this man being “the one.” Take what I’m about to say and squirrel it away. Right now the very idea that you may ever have to labor (blood, sweat, and tears) to love this man isn’t to be believed. But being a matron in your home is first and foremost about loving your husband.
Doers of the Unspectacular
Clear lines help us do our work correctly, not raising it too high as if we are redeeming the world, and not pushing it too low, as if nothing here matters because it is temporary. Understanding what falls under the Noahic covenant and what falls under the Covenant of Grace is vital to doing our work right and well.
War Movies (Part 2)
This is why I watch war movies. I want to hold the truth in my head when the world tells me violence is never the answer and always evil. It’s not. Good men armed are a blessing and needed. War movies remind me of that. War movies help me understand that violence is awful, bloody, and breaking, but also necessary if I want to live safely in my home and nurture little things. I can’t grow flowers if I don’t have a defender.
War Movies (Part 1)
War movies help me not take for granted my quiet life. They help me to see how good I really have it. They remind me of the duality of life, and they help me be thankful for all that I have. They help me see everyday beauty by contrast instead of by exaggeration like fantasy.